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August 28th, 2006

personal space... @ 08:17 am

Location: camp - Tara
Mood: calm calm and damp.
Music: my hunny snoring.

personal space... a message to Frank the tickler guy.

Hi,

To all the fine people who ventured into this post, please accept my apologies for the strong sentiments, herein, on this Monday AM, except, of course, for Frank the tickler.

If you are a stranger or a relative stranger and we have been introduced, subsequently, when you and I greet or part, if I invite you into my personal space for a hug, please don't think that I have given you carte blance (sp?) to grab my sides and tickle me.

To the person who did, this weekend, next time I will not ask you to stop, I will just grab the fingers on both hands and squeeze and twist until you start screaming and I will not stop squeezing and twisting until I hear some of them break and you stop screaming because you have passed out.

a threat, no.
a promise.

In my past, as a novelty, I used to squeeze drinking glasses until they shattered, it's a neat party trick.

That is all.
Thanks for reading.
 
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From:evilcreamsicle
Date:August 28th, 2006 01:21 pm (UTC)
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I couldn't agree with you more. Ugh.
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:August 28th, 2006 04:59 pm (UTC)
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[ugh]
[hug]
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:August 29th, 2006 03:04 am (UTC)
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[grin]
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:August 28th, 2006 04:59 pm (UTC)
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[hug]
you are quite welcome to tackle me tho.
[weg]
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From:guywithmonsters
Date:August 28th, 2006 03:57 pm (UTC)
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I HATE when people violate my personal space like that.
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:August 29th, 2006 03:36 am (UTC)
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The strange thing is that he pulled the same krap last year or the year before and I told him to stop and I so totally blocked the experience out of my mind that I didn't ID him until he started tickling me and then it was too late...
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From:choochoo68
Date:August 29th, 2006 01:11 am (UTC)
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good thing i left when i did :-0 ...yes i did notice the strain on your face as you refrained from doing that
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:August 29th, 2006 03:45 am (UTC)
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[grin]
thanks for noticing.
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From:choochoo68
Date:August 30th, 2006 01:52 am (UTC)
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i'd say he let go just in the nick of time
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From:teddyb
Date:August 29th, 2006 03:18 am (UTC)
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Man, I so totally understand what you mean.

I HATE when people just assume it is okay to maul someone else.

I used to have guys in bars, total strangers, come up and twist my nipples. I have no idea what gave them the idea it wa okay to do that, but it was annoying to me, and a couple of them were very close to getting me angry enough to toss them the length of the bar.

I hope the jackass in the tickling situation is smart enough to give you a lot of space in future encounters.
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:August 29th, 2006 03:44 am (UTC)
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nipples: I've had that experience, too. I have a pierced nipple and folks think it's OK to come up to me and start playing with the ring, sometimes, hard, then they ask me if it's OK, usually at the point that I'm about to yelp in pain, that's when I push their hand to my chest and grab a couple of fingers and give an un-gentle squeeze and a twist, they quickly get the idea and stop.

[to all the thems]The stainless steel ring in my left nipple is there because I like the way that it looks on My chest, if you want a nipple ring to squeeze, twist and pinch, go get your own...

[hug]
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From:choochoo68
Date:August 30th, 2006 01:52 am (UTC)
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how about lick? ;)
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:August 30th, 2006 01:43 pm (UTC)
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[grin]
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From:jedibearcub
Date:August 30th, 2006 02:29 pm (UTC)
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I totally agree that alot of people have no respect to other people in regards to personal space and what is and is not acceptable. I think people need to be reminded that showing respect to a person starts with how we interact with them and treat them. It is also important to not that people will get farther then by showing respect then by taking what they want.
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:August 30th, 2006 03:16 pm (UTC)
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I agree, respect for others, respect for self.

Being as handsome and as you are, I would expect that you have had more then your fair share of personal space incursions.

I believe that if the fellow in question asked before lashing out with a tickle attack, he would likely find a few folks that are into his fetish and he would also find himself suitably occupied on his visits to camp instead of having to resort to covert stalking and taking instead of asking and enjoying. Instead his actions have caused me and folks that have had the displeasure of interacting with him to label him as creapy and to be avoided.

I think if it happens again I am going to have a chat with the folks in the camp office about him...
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From:choochoo68
Date:August 31st, 2006 12:03 am (UTC)
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i notice he hangs with the other stalkers too...if i ever get that rude just swat me...please...hard...repetedly
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From:jcbearny
Date:August 30th, 2006 11:09 pm (UTC)
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Can I still tickle you? Just a little? Naked?
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:August 31st, 2006 12:59 am (UTC)
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sure you can, just ask first...
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From:jcbearny
Date:August 31st, 2006 02:11 am (UTC)
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I just did, silly. ;-)
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From:mrpandabehr
Date:August 31st, 2006 04:35 am (UTC)
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Hey man, how are you doing? It was nice finding you on here.

Did you ever bleed or cut yourself when you squeezed those drinking glasses till they shattered?
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:September 1st, 2006 02:06 am (UTC)
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once or twice, but most times I was lucky.

I'm doing good.
How about you?
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From:mrpandabehr
Date:September 1st, 2006 05:38 am (UTC)
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I am doing good. Very busy with school. I'm taking 22 credits this semester.
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:September 1st, 2006 10:00 pm (UTC)
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oh wow, that's alot!

We've been splitting time between Hillside camping and home/work/etc... Decided to stay home this weekend to tidy up for visitors and try to stay dry.

Take care of yourself!
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From:mrpandabehr
Date:September 2nd, 2006 08:24 pm (UTC)
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I've decided to stay home as well and relax.
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From:hylandr
Date:October 11th, 2006 09:47 pm (UTC)
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It's stuff like that that really makes me glad I'm not ticklish. I've had some people pull some stupid stuff tho and... well... Let's just say it's not a good idea to piss off someone who's Italian-German with the tempers to go with both. Anyway, you're far to cuddly to waste time on tickling. ;)

(I know this is an old post. Just getting to can back through tho.)
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From:geekbearjeff
Date:October 18th, 2006 12:00 am (UTC)
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cool.

Thanks for checking out my journal!

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